Searching her things does not put her in danger, as she has been careful to ensure her space shows only the story she wishes to tell. (Indeed, it may protect her further, by showing that she is nothing more than she appears.)

I have begun to suspect that making yourself not care about Miss Granger is impossible, but you must keep that emotion as emotion only, not as action. If you need a retelling of the story of my own inappropriate attachment and what it led to as motivation, I will do so if I must.