Heh.

You've said before that he's got a hard time of it sometimes, dealing with the fact that he is important, and that people look to him. Maybe it's his way of being in control? By deciding not to do things?

I don't know. Anyways, maybe if he sees becoming a leader as something good, or something with a purpose, something that helps other people, that might be better? Maybe? We'll have to see.